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Free relationship message decoder
Paste the exact words. The decoder identifies communication signals, keeps facts separate from interpretation, and gives you one grounded reply.
How it works
A closer look at the wording.
The decoder uses a fixed set of English phrase rules to flag affection, specific plans, distance, ambiguity, accountability, dismissal, and pressure. It then suggests a response based on the signals found and the tone you choose. Your text is processed locally in your browser.
For example, “I miss you, maybe we can meet soon” contains affection and uncertainty. The useful next step is to ask about a specific plan. The words do not establish why someone is being vague or what they privately feel.
This is a reflection aid with a limited vocabulary. It can miss sarcasm, context, negation, or different phrasing. Review its output before sending a reply. It does not determine truthfulness or diagnose anyone.
See five worked examples of mixed signals and clear replies, or explore your own reactions with the attachment style quiz.